Author: Mimi DiFrancesca

Former columnist for the Ft. Lauderdale Sun Sentinel covering metaphysics, she got to interview the likes of Brian Weiss, The Amazing Kreskin and Apollo 14 astronaut, Edgar Mitchell. Mimi’s love of words became obvious to her parent’s at age four during high mass as she stood on the pew seat to rally the congregation- “Hey! Let’s everybody sit down!” She’s been a tour guide out west and has *too many* years of tourism marketing consulting, designing promo collateral, commercial scripts for TV/Radio, freelance writing, resume and bio coaching and large event planning. A poet, artist, world traveler, mom of two phenomenal kids; in the wee hours she has three finished fiction manuscripts, a published book of erotica, and two blogs and is a self-confessed Pinterest addict. Owner of a fabulous destination wedding and event venue in northern Michigan and a board member of the Northport Chamber of Commerce and Leelanau UnCaged Music & Art Street Festival planning committee. Currently writing a non-fiction book of unusual blessings that her friend/agent is kicking her rear to finish. Member of RWA, MMRWA, CCWA and former CCWA Board. www.wordninjagirl.com

NaPoWriMo: Poem #16: Down To This

National Poetry Writing Month  ~  30 Poems in 30 Days    ~  Poem # 16 of 30

Down To This

So,

It’s down to this, is it?

You, who can not handle the beauty and significance of a building you did not build, you do not love;  you have decided to burn it to the ground

You, who can not handle the beauty and the wisdom of women; you have decided to burn them, assault them, rape them, sell them, murder them

You, who are insanely jealous of the fact that females carry life inside them; you have decided to pass laws about what is in their bodies or not. 

You who can not control your own erections; you have decided to cover women from head to toe so you won’t have to mature and control your own penises.

You who can not handle the thought of anyone else having water or shelter or food or good health;  you have decided to covet the water sources, the food and the access to shelter, doling out small tastes of life sustaining elements for extortionist prices while you hoard the lion’s share

You, who can not handle the thought of a country that allows its citizens free speech, its women to vote and drive cars and have their voices heard at a boardroom table; you have decided to wage war against their open hearts and minds

It is down to this;

The jealous fits of rage of an adolescent male are the role model for religions, corporations and military organizations

Eleven Year Old Boys are running the world while hiding inside old men’s bodies.

It’s down to this.

It’s time for the sane adults

to bring these wicked boys in line.

 

 

 

 

NaPoWriMo Poem #15: Siren Call

A Ten Word Poem #15 of 30

Siren Call

siren call

of

warm sun

pulls me

from winter’s cave

NaPoWriMo Poem #14 of 30: Reverence

Haiku

Reverence

Reach down then pull up
If you have more then give more
This will heal the world

NaPoWriMo Poem #13: Empty Calendar

Poem #13 of 30

Empty Calendar

Appointments serve as structural dividers that cordon off our days into neatly ordered sections

In the off season
Or in retirement I’d guess
The absence of these structured
Place holders causes days to collapse and run into one another
Like cake batter poured on a plate
That can not hold the volume
Yet we expect it to firm up
Once the heat of the day gets at it.

We find ourselves confused that it’s weekly trash day again
Didn’t that just happen two days ago?

The phone tells us which day this is because we didn’t care enough to cross them off on the wall calendar we never look at.

There’s some rebel, Kerouac shit that rises up in us when we eliminate time commitments

It’s a free range

Confusing beautiful.
Mess.
See you Thursday

Or not

NaPoWriMo 2019 Poem #12: First Child

Haiku Poem #12 of 30

On Samm’s birthday❤

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First Child

You were not and then
You were – all fire, sound and light
Blazing through this bright life

NaPoWriMo Poem#11: Up The Ante

Poem #11 of 30

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Up The Ante

I’ll put in one beating heart
Dreams of a future together
A faithful stand by your side
More colorful wonder
than one life can handle
And raise you the capability
To make it all happen-

Your turn
Ante up
Then
let’s see your hand

Why Word Ninja Girl instead of Woman?

Someone asked me, in a very captious fashion, why I had decided to call this blog Word Ninja Girl, instead of Word Ninja Woman.

She thought it infantilized women, especially when it was a female doing the naming. I’m so glad she asked why. And I do think she needs to take a giant chill pill if this got her knickers in a knot.

So-explanation…

Many years ago, I attended a Women & Power conference at the Omega Institute Rhinebeck, NY campus. The speakers list was a dream come true. Maya Angelou, Eve Ensler, Wangari Maathai, Elizabeth Lesser, Jane Fonda, Sally Field, Anita Diamant and Carol Gilligan among many others. How I wish someone would have videotaped that three days of talks and workshops and wandering around campus, chatting with Eve and the other speakers on the stone pathway on our way to the cafeteria. There weren’t any divas or ego tripping people there. Just a bunch of people talking. It was a paradigm shifting, mind opening experience.

Carol Gilligan is the author of the 1982, Harvard Press’s, In A Different Voice; a book that has guided women’s studies at universities for decades. She talked about how the book came to be, the battles to support her theories and the ongoing conversation about moral development in females (caring) and males (justice) and how those two points of view lead to different outcomes.

She also talked about the raw courage and wonder of girls. She said that same girl who would plow out onto the ice and into a neighborhood hockey game without hesitation at age 11, would stop and reconsider a few years later as things change in her world.

We lose some fire in our raw courage reservoir after the breasts arrive and the bleeding begins. And even if we find our sea legs after all the hormones settle, we are never again as uninhibited and authentic as we were in our “girl” years; except when we are in the flow of creativity.

Pen to paper, hands to clay, eyes to the microscope, brush to the canvas, voice to the microphone; those moments reach back through time and fuel us with that “girl-power” those crazy Spice Girls infected us with in the 90s.

That’s where I go when I write, I paint, I photograph, I cook, I build or I face something difficult; right back into the warehouse of courage I had at 11 years old. When I reach for it, that kid says, “What do you need right now? I’ve got a crapload of everything, just for you.”

So the blog title is my own homage to that 11 year old Mimi, who was a mouthy, brave little ninja as quick to hand you a flower as to lay down the line, even to the boys, if some dodgy shit was going down. She’s still there.

That’s my girl. That’s my woman. That’s why Word Ninja Girl instead of Word Ninja Woman.

skirt shoes

NaPoWriMo Poem #10: Changes

NaPoWriMo Poem #10 of 30

Changes

It changes you-
when someone
takes your full heart
far, far away-
on a ride
down a distant road
to see the stars
and leaves you there
to walk all the way back
to reality by yourself
It changes you.

NaPoWriMo – Poem #9: Good With Weird

#9 of 30 poems in 30 days

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Good With Weird

Actually,

I’m good with weird

Weird finds me

wherever I go

It follows me

like a stray cat

And brings me presents

from the hunt

Weird calls to ask

if I can do

something

I’ve never done before

And I say.

Yeah. Sure. Why not?

Weird asks me to give a talk

on some weird thing I’m doing

because someone else

wants to know

how it works.

And sometimes weird

hands me a ticket

to somewhere

I didn’t even know

I wanted to go

and when I get there,

it’s exactly where I needed to be.

You see,

If you don’t second guess weird

when it comes looking for you

You will find yourself somewhere wonderful

You will find yourself somewhere

You will find yourself

I am good with weird

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NaPoWriMo- Poem #8: Worth It

National Poetry Writing Month. Poem #8 of 30.

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Worth It

I stand now-

In this older body

Calling down the years

To when the grand dream was new

And the people came to celebrate

In the beauty of that time

It was a thing of wonder

To have your life more in front of you than behind

And to risk everything for love

It was worth it

Just to have stood on that earth

In that moment

With a crazy brave heart

Shouting out

To the horizon-

Yes!